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Ask Sarge: On Partner Benefits & Drag Queens

Ask Sarge: On Partner Benefits & Drag Queens

"My partner is a new recruit and we have a family. I’m so afraid that they will separate our family and totally devastate our kids and myself. Can you give me more information on this?" [...]

Ask Sarge: Joining the military and PCSing to Virginia

Ask Sarge: Joining the military and PCSing to Virginia

Dear Sergeant: I am happily married and in the military. My husband has been thinking about joining the military as well, but I’m concerned that he will be stationed elsewhere and we will be geographically separated. [...]

Ask Sarge: Deployment, Pregnancy and PCSing

Ask Sarge: Deployment, Pregnancy and PCSing

"I am an active-duty service member and my partner is currently pregnant. I have no idea where to begin in order to support my family." [...]

Ask Sarge: Rehab, Coming Out, Correcting the Record

Ask Sarge: Rehab, Coming Out, Correcting the Record

Dear Sergeant, I was discharged from the Navy during the Vietnam War in Sept. 1967 for being gay. Originally, I received a Good Conduct discharge; however, seven months afterward, my discharge classification was changed to a Misfit [...]

Ask Sarge: On Coming Out & Partner Benefits

Ask Sarge: On Coming Out & Partner Benefits

Dear Sergeant, my partner of approximately 17 years and I were married in California when it was legal. We where wondering if he would be eligible for any benefits / resources as my spouse after DADT [...]